I am a 38 year old, married executive that has spent some of the past two years seeking happiness.  Is happiness meant to be a ‘constant’ state of being ? Is there a quantifiable number of ‘happiness’ moments a ‘normal person’ should expect in a day?  Is the expectation and desire of happiness set too large that we miss out on the small moments and the joy they bring?  Who defines happiness and elects who it gets distributed to?